Following the passing of celebrated actor Val Kilmer at the age of 65, tributes have poured in from across the globe. One of the most heartfelt messages came from music and film legend Cher, who shared memories of her long-standing friendship and past romance with the late actor.
The two stars, who once formed one of Hollywood’s most surprising yet endearing couples, shared a bond that lasted decades — from their 1980s romance to their deep friendship in later years. Cher’s words serve not only as a tribute to Kilmer’s talent and spirit but also as a window into one of the entertainment world’s most quietly enduring relationships.
Remembering a Unique Hollywood Romance
Cher and Val Kilmer’s relationship began in the early 1980s. At the time, Cher was already a household name — a pop icon and Academy Award-winning actress. Kilmer, then in his early 20s, was an up-and-coming actor gaining recognition for his roles in films such as Top Secret! and, later, Top Gun.
Despite the 14-year age difference — Cher was in her 30s, Kilmer in his 20s — the pair quickly formed a connection. Speaking to People magazine in 2021, Cher reflected on their time together, describing Kilmer as “thrilling,” “funny,” and “like nobody I’ve ever known.”
“It was a bigger deal back then,” Cher said of their age gap. “The truth was, if I hadn’t gone out with younger men, I would have never had a date. Younger men weren’t intimidated by older women.”
Their bond was built not only on romantic affection but also a shared sense of humor. The two gave each other affectionate nicknames — calling themselves “Sid and Ethel” to avoid shouting each other’s names in public. Kilmer became “Valus Maximus,” and Cher, in turn, took on “Cherus Reprimandus.”
From Romance to Lifelong Friendship
While their romantic relationship eventually came to an end, the connection between Cher and Kilmer never disappeared. Over the years, they maintained a close friendship that Cher herself described as natural and effortless.
“I don’t know how we stayed friends. We just did. We didn’t try. We just were,” she said in a past interview with People.
As Cher recounted, the end of their relationship didn’t mark the end of their care for each other. They continued to support one another through the ups and downs of life in the public eye and beyond.
A Courageous Health Journey
In 2015, Val Kilmer was diagnosed with throat cancer — a battle he fought quietly for years before making his journey public. The actor underwent multiple procedures, including a tracheostomy that permanently affected his ability to speak.
His struggle and resilience were documented in the 2021 Amazon Prime documentary Val, which he co-produced using home video footage and voiceovers. The film was widely praised for its honest and intimate look at Kilmer’s life, legacy, and personal challenges.ⁱ
Cher, who remained close to him during this time, revealed that he spent time at her home during some of his most difficult health battles.
“He was brave the whole time,” she shared. “I saw how sick he was… he was coughing up blood, but he never gave up.”
In interviews, she has expressed admiration not only for his strength during illness but also for his vulnerability — a quality that he embraced and portrayed honestly in his documentary.
“I loved him — and I love him,” she said of Kilmer. “Look what he created, and even the things he let you see that nobody else would have. He wanted people to see who he really was.”
Cher’s Emotional Farewell
Following the news of Val Kilmer’s passing on April 1, 2025, Cher took to social media to share a tribute that was heartfelt, sincere, and filled with personal memories. Using his nickname, she wrote:
“VALUS. Will miss u. U were funny, crazy, pain in the ass, GREAT FRIEND. Kids [heart] u. BRILLIANT as Mark Twain. BRAVE here during ur sickness.”
Her message resonated with fans, many of whom responded with words of support, love, and shared memories.
One user commented:
“So sorry for your loss, Cher. The bond you had was so special.”
Another added:
“Val Kilmer was one of a kind. Thank you for honoring him with such love and honesty.”
A Legacy Remembered
Val Kilmer’s impact on film and theater is undeniable. From his early comedic role in Top Secret! to his unforgettable performance as Jim Morrison in The Doors, and as Doc Holliday in Tombstone, Kilmer proved his versatility and depth as an actor.
One of his most iconic roles came in 1995 when he played Batman in Batman Forever, a role that cemented his status as a leading man of his generation. In later years, Kilmer continued acting and became an author and artist, sharing his creativity through various mediums.
In his final years, Kilmer remained active in advocacy and spiritual work, and his openness about his health journey helped raise awareness about throat cancer, tracheostomy recovery, and voice rehabilitation.ⁱⁱ
A Story of Unconditional Friendship
The enduring connection between Cher and Val Kilmer is a testament to the power of mutual respect, shared experience, and emotional resilience. While their romantic chapter was brief, the story they shared lasted a lifetime — one rooted in genuine care and friendship.
In an age of fleeting celebrity headlines, their bond offers a reminder of how love can evolve and grow, even after the spotlight fades. Cher’s willingness to speak candidly about Kilmer’s life and health also underscores her own legacy of authenticity — a trait that fans have admired for decades.
Final Thoughts
The entertainment world has lost a brilliant actor, but the legacy of Val Kilmer lives on through his films, his documentary, and the memories shared by those who knew him best. Cher’s tribute reflects not only her sorrow but her immense appreciation for the man behind the performances.
Their story — from their whirlwind romance in the 1980s to their quiet friendship in later life — is a moving chapter in Hollywood history, filled with emotion, humor, creativity, and deep human connection.
As fans continue to celebrate Val Kilmer’s life and work, Cher’s words stand as a beautiful reminder of his enduring spirit.
Sources:
- Val (2021) Documentary – Amazon Prime Video
- People Magazine – Cher Discusses Relationship with Val Kilmer (2021)
- American Cancer Society – Throat Cancer Overview
- National Cancer Institute – Treatment for Head and Neck Cancer
